At some point children realized that it is because I’m loved by my parents so I can go on living
At that time they choose their attitude towards life
good child: obey
Bad child: oppose, rejects, rebels
Misunderstanding: angry children are incapable of controlling their emotions. Actually they control too well, and turned them to actions. Their intuition is unless they go this far, they won’t get the attention and love. (Survival strategy)
Childhood lifestyle is rooted in survival strategy
When achieving self reliance and separation from childhood lifestyle, one becomes an adult. Through loving others